“People only complain when they lack the knowledge to obtain”. ?????????
Complainers. We all know them. You might have a few on your social media feed. You might even fall into the trap of it yourself at times. Its not a very useful quality when trying to achieve success, and it usually stems from lack. You see something in someone else that you lack in yourself and you complain about it because you don’t have the emotional control to channel it in a positive way. Its the same with haters, people who hate on others usually do it because they see something in the other person that they lack in themselves. When you don’t know how to obtain something, or you lack the knowledge to acquire it, then this trait of complaining can usually rear its ugly head. ?????????
So how do we deal with it? First, when it happens, acknowledge it. See it as becoming aware of something you would like to improve on in yourself then ask yourself some tough questions about what that is. This can be tricky because it means you will have to confront those issues so put your ego aside and have the humility to admit to yourself that there may be things you need to improve on. Secondly, wish that person well and wish them more success. This is a very powerful tool because all of a sudden, you are switching from that scarcity and lack mindset to an abundance mindset. And you can never attract more abundance with a scarcity mindset. Lastly, use the awareness of this area to take action. Its the same with fear and doubt, the best way to confront and overcome it is with action. Take down some notes or action steps you can take today to start overcoming this lack and then get to work. Start taking that action and move in the direction you want to be moving in.?????????
Nothing good ever comes from dwelling on the negative, learn to take those negative circumstances and situations such as complaining and learn the emotional fortitude, strength and savvy that you can turn it into a positive trait that will benefit you.